Tuesday, October 24, 2006

Why I Am a Feminist

A few weekends ago, I was talking with a college roommate of mine. Almost out of the blue, she asked me,

“Meg, why are you a feminist?” I thought about it and I’ve been thinking about it ever since. This is my answer:

I am a feminist because my Christianity, my Reformed Christianity no less, constrains me. Sure the social, political and psychological arguments are valid but, mostly, I’m a feminist because I cannot live faithfully in God’s world without believing in the full humanity of all persons.

At creation, God fashioned “human beings in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.” (Gen. 1:27) Both men and women bear the image of God. This much is obvious to the vast majority of Christians but what about God’s creating Eve as a “helper” to Adam? Can men and women be separate in function while maintaining an essential equality of form? I grew up in a tradition that took this verse as a proof-text for women’s subordination to men. Much work has been done, lobbing this argument back and forth, but the original text speaks for itself. Of the seven other uses of the word translated “helper” in Genesis 2:18 and 20, 2 refer to persons who serve alongside or beneath another and 5 refer to God as a Divine Helper. (“Helper” as servant: Nehemiah 4:22 and Ezekial 30:8. “Helper” as reference to God: Exodus 18:4, Deuteronomy 33:29, Psalm 10:14, 27:9, 118:7, Hosea 13:9 According to New Nave’s Topical Bible.)

Certainly, then, the issue of rank is not what is at play in the use of this word, “helper.” One should not make the argument for a hierarchy which places men above women in this text just as one ought not argue that, because the word is often used of God, women should institute a hierarchy over men. Appropriate use of a Reformed hermeneutic relieves us of both errors.

It is in the fall, then, that we first see tension arise between the genders. Previous to this, men and women worked together seamlessly, without undo pride or self-negation. The words spoken by the Lord God in the curse stand as a bit of a riddle. To Eve, God says, “Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you." (Gen. 3:16) Once again, I remember being taught that this meant a woman would desire her husband’s place of authority but that men would ultimately maintain their rule, albeit harshly at times. It always struck me as a strange acquiescence in the midst of the curse.

“Poor women. Their pain is increased in childbearing. This is a curse indeed. Poor men. Their work has become more toilsome. This is a curse indeed. Poor humanity. ‘From dust you are
and to dust you shall return.’ Death. This is a curse indeed.”

The curse, then, is a description of what it means to partake in a fallen humanity. It must be railed against. Except verse 16b. Here we have upstart women desiring an inappropriate respect and position but, have no fear, men will keep them in their place. Oh sure, it might get out of hand sometimes. That part is admittedly wrong but that women live their lives constantly bumping their heads against a glass ceiling? This is what God wants. This hermeneutical slight of hand, moving the text from descriptive as a whole to prescriptive in this particular, is an adulteration of the text.

In Christ, there is forgiveness for sin. In Christ, there is the potential of redemption, of our souls and of our world. As Reformed Christians, we are well aware of the Kuyperian mandate,
“There is not a square inch in the whole domain of our human existence over which Christ, who is Sovereign over all, does not cry: 'Mine!'" As Christians, we therefore turn our attention back to the curse and ask,

“What are we supposed to do with this mess?” I am a feminist because I believe that the creational mandates of dominion and intimacy have been twisted, through the fall, into a sinister tendency toward domination by most men and a frightening intimacy-at-all-cost in most women. (I am, of course, deeply indebted to Mary Stewart VanLeeuwen’s work, particularly the book, Gender and Grace, for this insight.) The result is social, political and economic injustice perpetrated on women. The result is an inequity of power, due to individual and institutional chauvinism, such that women’s voices are unfairly silenced and disrespected. Male perspectives are still considered normative and women’s perspectives, as far as they differ from men’s, are simply deviant.

But perhaps all this article has done is beg the question, “What is a feminist?” The ever authoritative, vastly entertaining Wikipedia provides these words, among others, as a definition of feminism:

“In simple terms, feminism is the belief in social, political and economic equality of the sexes, and the movement organized around the belief that gender should not be the pre-determinant factor shaping a person's social identity, or socio-political or economic rights.”

Such should be the conclusion, not only of feminism, but of a Reformed anthropology, of a Biblical understanding of what it means that “God created human beings in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them." Therefore, I am a feminist because my Christianity, my Reformed Christianity no less, constrains me. I am a feminist because I cannot live faithfully in God’s world without believing in the full humanity of all persons.

18 comments:

steve westby said...

"...but what about God’s creating Eve as a “helper” to Adam? Can men and women be separate in function while maintaining an essential equality of form?"

Perhaps God sent man a "helper" because God was aware of just how much man needed help! =)

Thanks for your post. You describe a view of feminism that is insightful and wise. It is sad that the word "feminist" has become so demonized of late by those on the Christian right, although I daresay that some extreme feminist thinkers haven't helped the cause much.

Anonymous said...

I agree. I think part of the reason that Christian feminists are frowned upon is because the term "feminism" automatically denotes bra burning and men-bashing. We need another term. Hmm...egalitarians? Whatever.

I am also curious about your views on a couple other things. First of all, I would be interested in the hermenutics of the passage in Ephesians 5 that people use to support female subordination in marriage. Also, what do you think about gendered launguage for God? I've heard God referred to as "She" a couple of times. It really shocked me, but come to think of it, is God really a guy? Sure there's the whole "God the Father" thing, but aren't there also lots of feminine images for God too?

Heh. I think that's it. Enjoy advising break!

Rachel

www.xanga.com/rachy214

Meg said...

Rachel,

By way of a shameless self-plug, I refer you to:

http://megsoapbox.blogspot.com/2005/08/redeeming-headship.html

which is a post I wrote about the issue of headship, especially as it relates to the church but also with a pretty easy association back to marriage.

Also, I wrote this:

http://megsoapbox.blogspot.com/2005/10/whats-deal-with-him.html

regarding gendered language for God.
Hope this is interesting or, at least, helpful.

Meg

Zanne said...

Great answer Meg!
I really enjoy your writing and voice. :)

Erica said...

Nice thoughts, Meg. (Reminds me how much I love working in a church setting where being a Christian and a feminist is taken completely for granted!)

Now, here's an interesting wrinkle to add to the whole issue of the Genesis 1 curse: the pain in childbearing thing.

Much as I wanted to be a hard-core-earth-mama and have a baby with no epidural, my doctor wouldn't allow it (for good reasons, but that's another story...)

Anyway, as I'm laying there loving my epidural, I'm thinking, "Hey! Maybe epidurals are actually something Christian feminists ought to get behind because the greatly increased pain in childbirth is a result of the curse." (Who says a seminary education isn't useful in settings other than the pulpit?)

Ryan said...

Meg, sorry about the awkward situation I created today ;) Because of that very situation, I hope you know where I stand on this and related issues.

But just because I'm a bit of a rascal, here's 1 Cor 11:7-9 in the NASB (the word-for-word translation, with my bolding):

7 For a man ought not to have his head covered, since he is the image and glory of God; but the woman is the glory of man.
8 For man does not originate from woman, but woman from man;
9 for indeed man was not created for the woman’s sake, but woman for the man’s sake.

Is Paul disputing with our idea that both genders were created in the image of God? I read the Greek and the "but's" are definitely there is a slightly emphatic way.

I've only just been confronted myself with these verses.

Anonymous said...

Hi Meg,

I'm usually a lurker, but this post has inspired me to post a comment.

First of all let me say that I really enjoy your blog and your thoughtful, insightful discussions on a variety of topics. Now the part that might surprise you: I'm a female research scientist and an agnostic.

You would be surprised to know the degree to which your experience as a woman in a "man's discipline" closely parallels other situations, including being a woman in science. I guess the only advantage I have in the face of the same discrimination is that I don't have to hear that God him/herself believes I'm lesser. Anyways, you might want to check out the female scientist blogs, because you might find it equally interesting to see the same old issues (ie women are fundamentally inferior) dressed up in new clothing. If anything the parallels serve to underscore that fundamental problem: the need to 'prove' that women are less.

I like to say that I will be a feminist until the day comes that I can just be a humanist. Really I am "for" the equal respect of both genders, not to mention everyone. And I believe that certain interpretations of both religion (i.e. God's will) and science (i.e. "genetic differences") sadly only help to make that gap wider.

As for the question of God, something I have never understood is, why would God even need a gender? Does God really have a gender? It's not like he needs to reproduce sexually. When I think of God, I think of a sort of higher entity that is beyond gender. And if women are good enough to actually give birth to men, how can we be less? I personally find this 'made from a rib' thing to be a bit contrived and way to bring birthing and equality into dispute.

Anyways, your blog is a refreshing read and you touch on many issues that are deeply important: how do I be a better human being, how do I treat my enemies with love, how do I make the world a better place. The world needs these discussions.

Mike L said...

Ryan,

Some time ago I was reading one of N. T. Wrights comments on Paul, and he had a most interesting interpretation. If I remember correctly, Wright thought that Paul was telling women not to give up their feminity and imitate men. Again, if I remember correctly, Wright thought Paul was saying that women deserved much better than that.

It has been a while since I read that, but it might be worth looking up what Wright said. I am pretty sure I found that on the internet. Wright has some very interesting ideas about what scripture is saying.

I suspect that you would find a lot to think about too, Meg.

Hugs,

Mike L

Anonymous said...

Thanks for the links, Meg! Some great (and heated) discussions.

Rachel

Anonymous said...

p.s. I also enjoyed "Fundy Friday."

Anonymous said...

I am an Episcopalian seminary student who was verbally attacked yesterday by another woman who told me I was going to hell for presuming to have headship over a man. "The Bible is very clear on that and you'll never convince me otherwise!" she said. (I think the Holy Spirit has a great sense of humor; I used to think the very same way, as recently as 9 years ago.) I had _just met_ this woman and had not mentioned my status; someone else asked me how seminary was going. I had no interest in arguing with someone who obviously needed to be right, so I just said that we would have to agree to disagree, and then she mentioned about belonging to a church where people really believed what the Bible said... I still didn't bite. After she left the other people present were unanimous in their statements of support for me. In fact, one of them had been the subject of a similar attack not long ago; she is an ordained elder.

Funny how I just happened on this blog! Thanks!

Jenn said...

Wow, thank you so much for this. You put into words my thoughts exactly.

Anonymous said...

Funny GOd did not send man a helper... God sent Adam a helper. Adam was not man but a earth being. A hermanpherdite. The adam became male only when a female was created.

codepoke said...

Followed the link over from CBE's site. Nicely done.

Ryan,

If you take a closer look at 1 Cor 11, I think you will see that Paul starts out by addressing the fact that men *are* veiling themselves in the meetings. They are wearing the Jewish, "talith," a headcovering meant to serve as a reminder of sinfulness. Paul tells the men that they are shaming Christ when they cover their heads. This is somewhat obscured by the english, but not entirely. In the Greek, I understand that it is much more clear, but I am not a Greek scholar.

Paul finishes his argument by giving women permission to wear a headcovering, *if she chooses to,* because he would not require a woman to shame her husband. She ought not to wear a headcovering any more than her husband should, but Paul is understanding of a wife's situation and makes allowance.

Beyond Words said...

Mike, here's the N.T. Wright paper:http://www.ntwrightpage.com/Wright_Women_Service_Church.htm.He's saying women have every right in Christ to serve as they are called, but they should not forsake their feminine nature. He doesn't get into what that looks like, however.

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